Over the years I have decided that an important parenting strategy is to explain, prepare, and introduce transitions very slowly. I should have low expectations in a new situation. Change is hard, especially for kids, and new things can be scary.
Today's new thing: the dentist.
Today's subject: Gavin.
My expectation: hiding, general lack of cooperation, minimal participation in actual dental examination, possible screaming.
Actual experience: general lack of cooperation, stubborn demand for things to proceed in his way, lots of interference from Lexi, some participation in the dental exam.
Conclusion: the visit exceeded expectations....in a good way! Hooray!
And, by the way, Gavin has twenty teef that aren't very clean. I have low expectations for dental hygiene with my two-year-old. Apparently I need to raise the bar.
4 comments:
What a good mommy, taking your toddlers to the dentist! You wouldn't believe how many school-age kids Chad sees for their FIRST visit. It's never a pretty picture!
Good job, Heidi. I'm not sure my kids even brushed at that age. Probably good I can't remember....
We've got Luke's first visit ahead. I think yours will be far and beyond better than ours. Love the pics!
i have fond memories of being terrified of going to the dentist when i was a kid...but being treated like a princess and even getting a BUNCH of free stuff- so i could practice on my dolls. :)
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