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Oct 15, 2012

Mr & Mrs

Presenting Mr. & Mrs. Ryan Dixon,
married for time and all eternity
in the
Arizona Temple
10.13.12


I am so grateful that we could witness such a blessed event.
And the party was awesome, too.














Love you, Ryan and Nichole.
Happy forever.

Road trip highlights

Tyler setting a new PR for grumpiness
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Kate in sunglasses



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Roadside potty emergencies



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Gavin peeing on the side of the van

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Zach catching a lizard ripping off a lizard tail in a parking lot



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Gavin coughing all over everyone

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Lexi choosing to sleep on the floor in the motel 


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Kate waking up at 4:30 a.m.
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Hanging out with a bunch of bus-touring retirees in the motel breakfast room for an hour
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Finally finishing the Christmas stockings (on Gilbert Road)


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Greeting lots of family and friends in Mesa
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Seeing Granny & Gramps' new-and-improved, post-fire house (they moved in two weeks ago)
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Playing with cousins
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Zach barfing in the middle of the night
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Helping Holly cover paper lanterns with doilies


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Garry providing lots of muscle for reception set-up
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Hanging out at the park for two hours with the kids, and then cleaning up sand at home for an hour


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Tyler waking up in the night with croup
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Garry handling it
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Enjoying Ryan and Nichole's beautiful sealing ceremony and all associated festivities (post to come)
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Celebrating Zach's and Eric's birthdays


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Lexi wetting the bed for the first time ever
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Hitting the road for home 12 hours after Ryan and Nichole's reception
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Gavin having a bladder the size of a pixie's thimble

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Kate screeching shrilly every time she wanted a snack/binky/blanket/attention
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DVDs blaring in the back seats



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Getting a flurry of texts regarding the dramatic ward split happening in church

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Pondering the extensive ramifications of the ward split, including Garry's and my sudden no-calling status



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Deciding an hour before Albuquerque that we'd make the entire 780-mile trip home in one day, despite leaving Mesa at 9:00 a.m.
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Having a collective family meltdown at McDonald's in Santa Fe

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Distracting myself with Christmas music (true story)
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Returning to an undisturbed house in cold Colorado Springs at 12:00 a.m.
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Garry driving every single mile of the whole crazy journey and then going back out for milk at the grocery store
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Watching TV because we couldn't sleep in the wee hours of the morning
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The end.

Oct 9, 2012

Brent, John, and the homeless man

I've got a story for you.

So this morning my van battery was dead.  Again.  For about the sixth time in a week. Even the bishop has jumped my car for me.  It's getting ridiculous.  So after Garry jumped the battery one more time, I loaded up the Littles (including Gavin, whose hacking cough kept him out of school and ought to be loads of fun on our road trip) and went to Advance Auto Parts to see if our dumb battery could still be replaced under warranty.  I was worried about our upcoming travel with a fritzy battery.

We've had it tested a couple times before, and it always tests "good," even when it dies all the time.  So while Brent, the cashier/technician, tested the battery, I silently prayed that it would test bad.  It tested bad.  Tender mercy #1.  The old battery was under a prorated warranty, which doesn't exist anymore, but Brent gave the new one to me for half price anyway.  Tender mercy #2.

Then Brent told me that because he was the only one in the store until 10:00 a.m. (it was 8:15), the only way he could install the battery was if no more customers came into the store.  Guess what I prayed for? That customers would stay away until my battery was fixed.  And they did.  Brent installed the battery in 20 minutes and we were on our way.  
Tender mercy #3.  I even found the code to unlock the stereo system (an anti-theft feature that activates when the battery is removed) without calling Honda.  Tender mercy #4.

Gavin, Lexi, Kate, and I then drove off for our morning routine: pick up Zach at the middle school, check Lexi into preschool, and drop Zach at the elementary school (yes, in that order).  Once those kids were delivered, Gavin and Kate and I went to Target since I was trying to put off Kate's nap.

At Target I intended to pick up snacks for the road (check), a possible birthday gift for Zach (couldn't find it), a baby shower gift for tonight (check), and a couple shirts for Lexi (check).  While in the girls department I discovered winter coats on sale, and since I saw one I liked, I put one of those in the basket, too.

We got to check-out.  It was super slow, so the 10-items-or-less cashier motioned me into her lane.  Just as she finished ringing up my purchases, I realized I didn't have my wallet. What?!  My mind raced back through the morning, and I realized I had probably left it at the auto parts store...about 90 minutes before.  I panicked, thinking about the hassle it would be to bring more kids back to Target, and when would I do it (this was my only shopping window for the day), and how could I be so dumb, and what if my wallet is gone forever, and then I need a temple recommend before Ryan's wedding Saturday even though I JUST renewed it....

Then tender mercy #5 happened.  John Miller, a man in my ward, walked right past the check stand.  I stopped him and explained my situation.  Before I got to the part about please maybe could he possibly pay for my stuff, he pulled out his wallet and walked to the cashier.  Oh my goodness!  And just like that, he walked away with a smile and a wave. I told him I'd pay him back and he said, "Oh, whenever you get around to it."  I melted.

Once back in the van with the kids, I took a deep breath.  I looked up the number for Advance Auto and called.  My wallet was in the store safe.  Brent had noticed it right away. Tender mercy #6.  I told him I'd be there in ten minutes.  When I arrived, the wallet and its contents were totally intact.  All my cards, my cash, my recommend.  Everything was there.  Tender mercy #7.

Buoyed up by this collective fantastic news, I drove home.  In the course of my travels, I passed a homeless man on a street corner.  His cardboard sign read: "I'm hungry.  Please help."  Having been the recipient of so much kindness, I decided to pay it forward.  I drove through Wendy's and ordered a large, beefy combo meal and put a $5 bill in the bag.  The look on that poor man's face when I handed him the bag was priceless.  I was grateful for the opportunity to give just a little back to the community that had helped me.

This morning--and lately, really--I felt abandoned and very alone.  My morning prayer today included a plea for help, for some reassurance that God is mindful of me.  Because of my experiences this morning, I know, even better than I knew before, that a loving Heavenly Father hears and answers my prayers.  The answers don't always come in the way I would like or even expect, but they come.  And I am ever grateful.

Oct 8, 2012

Normal distribution

At the end of this day, I hope that this....


...finds its way into these.


T-54 hours until Operation:ArizonaTrip begins.

Note:
Don't you love how my laundry is a near-perfect bell curve?
The load already in the wash
may or may not be statistically significant.

Oct 7, 2012

Still waters


I spent some time at Temple Square early Friday morning.  I drove over from my hotel and quietly walked the grounds.  My troubled heart was searching for peace, which it found, in part, near the temple.  It was cold that morning and the sun was still coming up when I arrived.  As I sat at the fountain, and then on the plaza adjacent to the temple, "The Lord is My Shepherd" came to mind.  

The Lord is my Shepherd; no want shall I know.
I feed in green pastures; safe-folded I rest.
He leadeth my soul where the still waters flow.
Restores me when wand'ring.  Redeems when oppressed.
Restores me when wand'ring.  Redeems when oppressed.

In the valley and shadow of death though I stray
When Thou art my guardian, no evil I fear.
Thy rod shall defend me; thy staff be my stay.
No harm can befall with my Comforter near.
No harm can befall with my Comforter near.

In the midst of affliction, my table is spread.
With blessings unmeasured, my cup runneth o'er.
With perfume and oil thou annointest my head.
Oh, what shall I ask of thy providence more?
Oh, what shall I ask of thy providence more?

Then I walked around the grounds and found this: a pool of flowing, still water.  That pool became a profound symbol of the peace and assurance I can find in the Savior.


As I lingered on Temple Square, I marveled at how the quiet atmosphere would change dramatically in 24 hours when the 182nd Semi-Annual General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints would commence there.  Thousands of people would descend on the Conference Center, the Tabernacle, and the Assembly Hall to hear prophets and apostles of the Lord preach His gospel to the world.

I watched that conference via the Internet from the comfort of my home in Colorado Springs over the next two days.  I was instructed and uplifted and edified.  And, once again, my soul was led to still waters.

Oct 6, 2012

Things that make me smile.

Number 1:  Lexi sweeping the floor.  Apparently Kate got into the sugar and made a mess while I was...who knows what I was doing...and Lexi assumed responsibility for clean-up. Gavin also swept up his spilled cereal this morning.  What has gotten into these kids?


Number 2:  Gavin's choice of parking spot.  Good thing I walked around the van before getting in, eh?


Number 3:  Lexi has a new bike.  We inherited a darling little bike a few months ago, which Lexi has ridden with great pleasure ever since.  When one of the well-worn tires popped the other week, Garry couldn't find a replacement tire in any local store.  He finally found tires and tubes online, and they cost as much as a brand-new bike.  So we got this one, which I think is fabulous.  Lexi concurs.


Number 4: Twenty-eight socks without mates.  This doesn't really make me smile, except for the ridiculousness of the whole situation.  After discovering 22 lonely socks in the wash, I went through all of the kids' drawers in search of mates.  I did match several pairs, but also came up with more single socks.  Oh brother.


Number 5:  Kate in the dryer.  This also isn't really funny because of the danger factor, but since I was folding laundry on the floor next to her while she played, I didn't stop her.


Number 6: Gavin asleep in the window seat.  The other night Gavin was absolutely distraught that Garry wasn't home at 6:30 p.m. (he is almost always home by 5:30).  I finally encouraged him to wait by the window and watch for Garry to come up the street. So he did.  And then he fell asleep.



Number 7: New pajamas.  Grandma Bartle sent a fun Halloween package.  The kids are thrilled with their spooky bedtime attire.


Number 8: Fall leaves.  This is my favorite time of year in Colorado Springs.  The fall colors are so beautiful.  And my backyard tree is my favorite in all the world.


Know what else makes me smile?  Comments!  So tell me what makes you smile.  Or something like that.

Oct 1, 2012

Just remembering

When I'm sad, like I am today,
I try to find something to fill the emptiness.
So I looked up all the pictures I have of my Grandpa Dent.
(And, if I'm being honest, I also opened a bag of candy corn,
because, as we know, I suffer from kummerspeck.)

The pictures were equal parts healing and heart-breaking.
But mostly healing.

Summer 1979:
Grandpa holding me when I was new.


October 2001:
Grandpa holding my first baby when HE was new.


November 2002:
Thanksgiving in Mesa, and Ryan's Eagle Court of Honor.



May 2003:
Two Grandpas asleep on the couch (after Angie's wedding).


September 2004:
Holding baby Tyler and teasing little Zach (see the tongs?).






July 2005:
With family at Temple Square.


July 2006:
Letting Tyler play in his lap.


March 2007:
Grandma and Grandpa with the boys.


June 2008:
Wrangling baby Gavin.


July 2009:
Holding baby Lexi.



August 2010:
A lunch with the family in Salt Lake City.


April 2011:


March 2012:
Introducing Kate through the wonders of Skype.


So.
That was a sweet little trip down Memory Lane.
I'm glad to have all these pictures in one place.
But I think I need more candy.

pass it on!

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